Friday, September 24, 2021

ABUSED AND NEGLECTED CHILDREN; BLOG #2317; FRI SEP 24, 2021


THE COMEBACK:



THE COMEBACK:




I WISH I COULD BE FLUENT   
IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE










   YOU ARE FLUENT....

IN LIES, EXCUSES 
AND BULL SH*T     







THE MESSAGE:




Our society always reacts with abhorrence when stories of child abuse surface. We must  be very proactive in fighting this evil before it happens.

 

In New York City, the child who came to be known as Case No. 95-2011-00009 was the fourth born into a home where abuse and neglect were practically a family tradition. 

The mother, who was both a victim and perpetrator of abuse, had abused cocaine and suffered with mental illness. She repeatedly refused treatment; while knowing that keeping her family intact depended on it. 

Still, she refused, and one by one, the authorities removed the children. She lost custody of her 10-year-old son in 2004. Her 7-year-old daughter was removed in 2005. And her 3-year-old daughter was taken in 2008.
 
When she became pregnant with her fourth child, there was an active neglect case against her. Yet when she delivered the healthy boy on Dec. 27, 2010, he was released to her care. Within a month, he was dead. It was never determined whether it was murder or accidental.

 

TONY TODAY:



Child abuse is any act of maltreatment of a child by a parent or guardian that results in injury or harm and included instances of neglect, emotional injury, physical abuse and sexual abuse. 

IN CANADA

The Child, Youth and Family Enhancement Act of Alberta defines the four main types of abuse as:
1.Neglect
2.Emotional injury
3.Physical abuse
4.Sexual abuse

 

Each situation and family is different so, while some of the signs might point to abuse, they might also mean that the family is facing other problems that may contribute to child abuse such as:
  • A lack of parenting skills 
  • Immature parents 
  • Parents with negative childhood experiences 
  • and social isolation 
  • Alcohol and/or drug use in the home 
  • Manufacture of drugs, indoor marijuana grow operations, 
  • drug trafficking in the home. 
  • Family violence in the home
  • Frequent family crises 
  • Unrealistic expectations of a child’s behaviour and capacities. 


THE MUSIC:

Because Of You - Kelly Clarkson (Lyrics)

      



THE STUFF:


Stress and Courage Feel the Same

The physical effects of stress and courage, including breathing 
rate and heart rate, cause similar sensations. This means you
 can use this to your advantage. This is one of the most useful 
things to learn!

When you’re feeling stressed in any situation, immediately 
react. Your body is getting ready to embrace courage.
Know that you are NOT stressed.

Recent studies focusing on tend-and-befriend behaviours 
associated with stress, seeking social support when facing 
challenges, have found that “a befriend response may have 
evolved to help us protect offspring, but when you are in that 
state, your bravery faces all challenges.”

 THE PUN:


England doesn’t have a kidney bank,
but it does have a Liverpool.



THE QUESTION:


When does an individual forfeit 
the right to give birth to a child?




THE QUOTE: 

"Child abuse casts a shadow 

the length of a lifetime." -Herbert Ward 


THE LEMON:



Guess who?








THE CLIP:







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