Fights and arguments go hand in hand in a loving relationship. There is danger in allowing this reality to flourish. The deeper the love, the more likely it becomes to experience different feelings and interpretations. A meaningful marriage is destined to follow the rugged road of togetherness and happiness. It can only succeed with a determined willingness and ability to understand, to share, to communicate, to forgive, to encourage, to support and to love. Never go to bed angry.
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John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, describes the typical predicament that men and women find themselves in when they fight. Women tend to assume the worst and blame; men become judgmental and dismiss or criticize her feelings.
WORLDLY CULTURES
Just how much are women supposed to put up with? Why do so many marriages fail? Why is our society so unbalanced when it comes to salaries, job qualification, professional sports, the pink tax, etc?
Why do cultures still exist where women are treated as possessions? Why are there so many 'baby’s mommas’? Why are there 'honour killings'? Why is a good education for young girls not a priority in every culture?
Some believers claim that women are emotionally and spiritually much stronger than men. Females are the basic human form. Maleness is a kind of birth defect. Hahaha. I wonder if this belief is responsible for the apparent mistreatment of females by males. Is it that man is trying to 'get even?'
Some believers claim that women are emotionally and spiritually much stronger than men. Females are the basic human form. Maleness is a kind of birth defect. Hahaha. I wonder if this belief is responsible for the apparent mistreatment of females by males. Is it that man is trying to 'get even?'
Some songs possess a powerful message that requires meditation and questioning. One that readily comes to mind is a musical poem that was referenced by Hillary Clinton in the face of her husband's scandalous affair.
"You know, I'm not sitting here – some little woman standing by my man like Tammy Wynette. I'm sitting here because I love him, and I respect him, and I honour what he's been through and what we've been through together.”
Hillary said the affair between the former President and Lewinsky, a White House intern at the time, was not an abuse of power and said Lewinsky "was an adult.”
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Some men would answer: YOU WERE ALWAYS ON MY MIND. by Willie Nelson |
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