THE MESSAGE:
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| LISTEN UP PUNK! ... WHICH IS THE PUNK? |
Following are three cases, lately in the news, that illustrate the carelessness surrounding the pro creation of children by seemingly selfish or uncaring individuals who are responsible for childbirth without an awareness of the needs of their dependants.
THE BLURB:
WHO WINS?
A gay man, thought he was helping a good friend from medical school. He had promised her that he would donate his sperm so she could undergo 'In-vitro fertilization' and become a mother.
In 2000, he donated sperm to help the woman conceive. She used his sperm to have two babies both of whom are now teenagers. This year, she is suing him for child support.
Ontario law states that known sperm and egg donors can he held liable for child support based on biology alone.
The mother claims that the sperm donor has acted as father for the teens’ lives to date. His parents were seen as grandparents and the teens met with his extended family on holidays.
He paid for trips for the children to visit him in Europe, or to take them to Disneyland. In 2011, he gave the mother $22,000 to help out with costs.
After the second child was born in 2002, the pair signed an agreement giving the mother full custody. It detailed that she would not look to him for any financial support; however, now she’s arguing he has acted as a father all along. Her application states that her children clearly view him as their dad. The teens exchange emails with him and he signs them “dad”. As recently as 2015 they spent a week with him and his partner in Italy.
Documents show that the mother makes just under $250,000 a year as a gynaecologist, obstetrician and university professor. He made just under $280,000 with the World Bank in Europe.
If she is successful in her case, he will be on the hook for four years of retroactive child support, since 2012, as well as other expenses, including post-secondary education.
What must the twins think of their biological parents now? How will their lives be affected?
She is one of B.C.’s best-known killers – found guilty of brutally beating and drowning a teenage girl under a Victoria bridge in 1997. Now Kelly Marie Ellard is about to become a mother.
Despite serving a life sentence in prison for killing 14-year-old Reena Virk, Allard is now about eight months pregnant. The father is Darwin Dorozon, 41, a man with gang links who was out on day parole when he was allowed intimate visits with Allard in the spring. He was granted full parole in August, but it has since been revoked after an alleged breach.
Dorozon's conviction in 2001 was centred around his part in the kidnapping and robbing of a drug dealer who had been tortured, shot and killed by his accomplice.
Currently he has had his parole revoked. The parole board said in its ruling, "On the same date full parole was granted, police advised CSC that you were a person of interest in the suspicious disappearance of a low-level drug dealer in May 2016." After reviewing this information, the CSC made a decision to issue a warrant of apprehension and suspension for the protection of society.”
Ellard is serving a life sentence for second-degree murder after beating and drowning Virk under a Victoria-area bridge when both were teenagers. She was denied day parole in May despite the Parole Board of Canada noting that she was finally taking some responsibility for the murder and had made strides in her rehabilitation.
Dorozon’s latest parole documents mention his "committed relationship with a high-profile female federal offender who remains incarcerated at this time."
Who is going to look after Allard's baby? A convicted mother serving a life sentence in prison for murder, or a father convicted of gang gang related crimes?
ASLEEP BUT NOT AT THE WHEEL
An Illinois couple was charged in the death of their infant son, Anterio, after they found him unresponsive in their bed one morning. The medical examiner says the cause is "unexpected death in infancy with a history of co-sleeping," and thus begins the finger pointing at a couple who slept with their baby. It is also reported that they were intoxicated when they went to bed with their little boy, and one of them rolled on top of him during the night, resulting in his death. The police say that the parents were under the influence of alcohol and marijuana at the time.
RCMP found Nia Eastman’s body in a home in Choiceland, Saskatchewan. Nia had been picked up from from school by her father. Nia’s father was found dead on a property east of Smeaton, Sask. Autopsies have been ordered to determine the cause of death for both the deceased.
An Amber Alert, issued at the request of the RCMP was deactivated and they do not believe anyone else was involved in Nia’s death They are not seeking any other suspects.
NATURE CAN BE CRUEL
This poem was written by a terminally ill young teen in a New York Hospital.
FATHER'S PAIN CHILD SUFFERS?
RCMP found Nia Eastman’s body in a home in Choiceland, Saskatchewan. Nia had been picked up from from school by her father. Nia’s father was found dead on a property east of Smeaton, Sask. Autopsies have been ordered to determine the cause of death for both the deceased.
An Amber Alert, issued at the request of the RCMP was deactivated and they do not believe anyone else was involved in Nia’s death They are not seeking any other suspects.
According to a Saskatchewan provincial court document, Adam Eastman was facing an assault charge. A peace officer said he believed Eastman committed an assault on Crystal Eastman, Nia’s mother, on Aug. 23 in. The court had no record of convictions against Eastman.
A female business owner in Choiceland, Saskatchewan told the press that Nia’s father dropped in for a talk pretty much every day. She did not want her name used but said that Eastman and his wife had recently separated and Nia was their only child. The woman went on to say that Eastman had two children from a previous common-law relationship and had worked at a Co-op for a while, but was currently unemployed. “He was having mental issues. Him and his wife split up. It wasn’t a good situation,” she said.
This poem was written by a terminally ill young teen in a New York Hospital.
SLOW DANCE
on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain
slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Do you run through each day
on the fly
When you ask "How are you?"
do you hear the reply?
When the day is done,
do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow
And in your haste,
not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time
to call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away...
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
THE QUESTION:
Why do females fall in love with losers and bear their child?
THE LEMON:
To all the people who allowed conjugal visits to Kelly Allard
THE QUOTE:
"If a country is to be corruption free and become a nation of beautiful minds, I strongly feel there are three key societal members who can make a difference. They are the father, the mother and the teacher."
A. P. J. Abdul Kalam
THE CLIP:
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